I dont think marriage is hard but i definitely think it takes both people working together and to fight through the rough patches to make it work... If only 1 party wants to salvage it then it probably will never work or last for that matter
Marriage can be tough. All people entering into marriage need to be told the truth....marriage and a family can be tough. But all great things one achieves must be paid for with hard work.
Let me add Marriage is easy when you figure out YOU, are not the most important person in it My wife and I both hear out friends whine about their spouses, and majority of it is petty stuff. Marriage and family is supposed to be hard work, but also fun and rewarding. I get more enjoyment doing things for my wife and family than I do for me. That's why I have pretty much hung the bow up for a bit. Right now I cannot be a great husband, father and be a great hunter, something had to go. Right now I don't miss it a bit
Actually Germ, I saved that picture of you and every time my wife starts getting uppity, I show her that picture and say "You could be married to this!" and that makes her appreciate what she has really quick.