For a parent it is to raise your kid/kids to not shoot up a movie theater/school/work place/church/whatever. for those that aren't parents its to not shoot up a movie theater/school/work place/church/whatever. Jussayn
Success is a personal opinion and only you can judge your success. I just went to my 20 year high school reunion and loved to see people at every social strata satisfied and loving life. Some people are driven by money, some by status, some by family but ultimately your own happiness is what matters. If you aren't happy change direction and find what makes you happy, your success is your responsibility.