Let's discuss hot neighbor’s daughter ethics.

So our neighbors are emptynesters. They have two children with a son and a daughter. The daughter just finished up with college and she lives somewhere else but she comes home for the weekend every so often.

Well let me put it out there. She is ………. um……………… very attractive you might say. Like many 22-24 year olds are.

She also likes to sunbath. Outside. In her cute little two piece “outfit” on their back deck. She is not shy. She is not trying to hide.

So the question is. What is appropriate and what is not? I find myself sneaking a peak out the window once in awhile. Just a peak. Should I feel like a pervert? Should I be getting the binoculars out? Should I go tell her she missed a spot with her sun tan lotion on her back? Should I go outside only in a Speedo? Should I lock myself in the basement? Should I take pictures to post to BHC? Should I call all my friends to play cards on the back deck?

Our windows are dark glazed so getting busted is out of the question.

For the record my wife is not the jealous type at all. In fact, she tells me when the daughter is outside so I can look. I think my wife likes the way she looks as well.

So give me the ethics of what is Ok and what is not.

 

Sneak a peek, pictures to yourself, pictures for us....its ALL good! hahahaha

 

no comment ...lol

 

Huh????????

 

any one else pictureing the scene from Fast times at Ridgemont High when Judge Reinhold watches Phoebe Cates in the pool through the window

 

Actually Tony. I had YOU in mine when I posted this. I really want to hear your thoughts.

 

This?

 

Let me be completely honest ... I would look quickly and walk away sing, "Yes, Jesus Loves Me"




Each time I walked past the window


I am being honest ... I would want to keep looking, and I even might at times, but I really do try and not lust in my heart ... tho this time of year it is VERY hard not to ......

 

Good answer Tony.

 

Yup thats the one...........man wasnt she hot.

 

Never gets old,

 

Well if the wife think she looks ok........and you think she looks ok......and...........

 

I like your thinking Brett.


It will never happen. But I like where this is going.

 

As Ozzy Osbourne once song, "Because I'm a dreamer, I dream my life away......"

 

My wife and I have had discussions about this. She claims she definitely appreciates a good looking attractive women but doesn't find them sexually stimulating. Translation= She likes women also but don't have to the guts to try it.

 

I have 22-24 year old twins next to me thankfully there are woods between our houses

Wonder if that will help sell the house :D

 

I would see how far you can push this.

 

See that is the thing Pat. If I had a 22 year old daughter would I want some dude getting his jollies off of peeping out of his window at my daughter while sunbathing? I always try to put myself in the other guy's shoes.

The answer is that I would not let my daughter sunbath in my presence. I think I would be that psycho dad.

Thank god I had two boys and no girls.