Wow. This baby took off. Good discussion. Lots of good stuff. I will be repeating some points to him tomorrow. I think I am going to try and get some married sex now. Good night. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
I definitely wouldn't have anything to do with her. There is no telling what kind of BS she is feeding this guy about her husband to make him feel sorry for her to get what she wants. If she is willing to cheat on her husband and wreck her marriage, which involves children and their well being as well, then what kind of person is she really? Put yourself in the husband's shoes. Would you want this happening to you while you worked long hours to provide for your "faithful" wife at home? She is a piece of trash in my opinion. A marriage is for life. If she wasn't committed to being solely with her husband the rest of her life she shouldn't have gotten married.
I can agree with the general assessment that she's a "sloot." What I don't understand is that some of you can't respect the fact that she's another man's wife. It's like a troop of chimps where anything goes.
Similar scenario... different twist (just out of curiosity). What if the woman in question is not a "sloot" (love that word)? I'll establish a hypothetical. She got married at an early age high school sweetheart sort of thing. Fell out of love with her husband and is wanting to leave him. Totally unhappy. Somewhere along the way starts talking to another guy she met (work, gym, event, etc... wherever). They started talking to eachother and develop feeling towards one another. She wants to pet your funky monkey in the worst way but hasnt' because of situation and is in the process of getting divorced but hasn't dropped the bomb on her husband yet. Does the guy in the picture still carry on the semi plutonic relationship with her waiting in the wings? Maybe some flirting, lunch, talking, texting etc... Is that as ethically bad? Should the guy back off and kill all communication until the deal is done? Or stay in the picture and keep communicating with her while it's going down knowing it's simply a matter of time?
This was some great discussion. When I saw how many pages it was I figured it had to have gone down hill. Glad to see it stayed interesting and I like NY Bowhunters new twist. I've seen a lot of situations work out for the better, where many of you would be condemning the parties involved.
I dunno, how would you feel if you found out your mom was sleeping around on your dad? There are children involved here for one. Next, sounds like she is trying to rationalize her actions by her claims. If her husband was that bad to her, she could take the kids and leave. Hot or not, a married person is married and off limits. And there is also the "Thou shalt not covet thy neighbor's wife" thing.
In my early twenties I would have probably done it. Now that I am older and have been married a while I am smart enough to avoid anything like that, I also appreciate marriage for what it is supposed to be and would never put a family through this just so I can get laid.
Still same in my mind. Some guy getting involved with a married woman. Ask this, is his involvement in any way respectful of the marriage? Or is it damaging to the marriage?
Well one things almost 100% sure, it will end badly for just about all parties involved. I wouldn't want to be involved. Tell your buddy whenever he's most tempted just hop in the shower, rub one out, and then think about the situation again. You know kind of clear his mind. 99 problems but a sloot aint 1
