Having "relations" with a married person

Discussion in 'The Water Cooler' started by BJE80, Nov 19, 2013.

  1. Siman/OH

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    It's not about Todd, he just gave me the opportunity to post it.

    I guess I'm siding with Tom on this one, but of course I'm just a dirty man sloot ;)
     
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    I 100% echo everything Tfox has said.... everything
     
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    I've made plenty of mistakes in my life. Still do but I also think people are too quick to pass their desires and wants off as "mistakes" when they know in their heart they are wrong.

    Both the people in this scenario are wrong, but one gets a pass.


    I will say that walking a mile in ones shoes may change things. I will also say that the reasons given for the infidelity make the woman in this case a "sloot" insurance? Really?

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    Oh she is definitely a sloot.

    But that's okay in today's world. And I believe the norm. As has been stated.
     
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    Thanks gary.



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    I don't believe that to be true and if it is, then shame on ALL OF US for accepting it and encouraging it.

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    Exactly.... just like the 30-40% of married women cheat???? No way....
     
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    Your a married father in his...early 50s?

    I'm 23 and without a wife and children , I work with the best and worst of the public. Promiscuity is pretty much the norm these days. You might not accept it or encourage it, but it's happening.

    All you have to do is turn on the tv, a movie or listen to mainstream music.
     
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    I will also add that staying with the husband for the kids is the right thing to do BUT she should still act as though she is married. Can't play both sides.

    Once the kids are grown and she still feels the same, leave.

    If it is a violent situation, get the hell out now and take the kids with you.

    A lot of unknowns but just going by the info given, it's wrong.

    The fact that the coworker is questioning the decision should be proof he knows it's wrong and he should follow what he knows to be right.

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    I think that's a reference to the young generation of "sloots", not exactly married woman. I could be wrong...trying to follow this on my phone.
     
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    Early 40's and felt the same way when I was 20.

    I know it goes on. But I don't believe it to be the norm. If it is, then I say again, shame on all of us.

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    Tell him to take a cold shower, slap himself in the face, then picture her as a hairy old woman before he makes his decision.
     
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    Look at the other thread in the water cooler about kids playing "knock out". Definitely not the norm, but it shows how seriously messed up our young society is.

    I'm not proud of it either, but you can't make somebody make something of themselves.
     
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    You can def. add points for liars.

    Cheating on your girlfriend in highschool? Does that count? What constitutes cheating in the first place?

    I just don't believe the world is a good place. Maybe I've been around the wicked to much.
     
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    89% of all statistics on the internet are incorrect. I say invert 14% to 41%.


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    It takes responsible adults to teach right from wrong. Both,imo, are equally wrong and I will teach my kids and any youth I have the chance to teach the same.

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    Yes, cheating on your girlfriend in high school counts. Moral compass and right and wrong.

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    I think one of the main points being missed in many of these posts is there is someone's marriage involved here. Seems to me you are saying someone's marriage doesn't mean much. I wonder if it is your marriage someday, will it have the same importance to you. Just because it's someone else's marriage doesn't take it's importance away.
     
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    I am sure you are more accurate :rofl:
     

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