I'd have to say "no" being completely honest. tempting yes, fun to fantasize about yes, but it is still ADULTRY, and being on the receiving end of that sucks, my first wife did this to me when i was gone on one year "government business" trip to Iraq. ( id didn't treat her like crap though.)
IMO your buddy has already done her and now is trying to decide how bad it is so he asking what you think before he goes back. And for most of the guys saying they would turn down a HOT MIlF when they were younger there has never been more of a need for the BS flag...I just can't fly it from my phone!!!
Despite what you might think some of us actually have a working moral compass that is guided by a light brighter than the skin of a naked sloot. I hate cheaters as much as I hate thieves and poachers. If you are so unfulfilled in your marriage that you need to go elsewhere then you are doing more damage by staying than you would leaving. Cheaters are weak scum. And anyone who purposely temps another to cheat is a dirt bag too. Yes mad.
Just because there's a goalie, it doesn't mean you can't score... All I say is these things end in 3 ways. 1. It goes perfect and both get what they want. 2. One gets too attached and ruins it. 3. The husband finds out. 1 never happens if it goes on too long, and usually 2 leads to 3 happening. And when he does find out your buddy better be ready to brawl or talk fast. With that being said, you only live once and you need a few good stories to remember from time to time. To each his own.
Man this thread has covered some ground in just a few hours. I am joining in late but gotta say I would stay the heck away from that woman. He's just asking for trouble if he jumps on her. Marriage vows should mean something to her and this buddy as well. It's just plain not right.
Honestly yea I probably would. And probably not feel too bad about it. Its not necessarily right but I'm not the one married. I wouldn't be the first to bring it up though. On a side note one of my buddies was in a similar situation couple years ago. She was married but they were all but seperated. My buddy and her started messing around and she finally got divorced and now they been together for almost three years.
I am not saying there are no guys that would say no but I would bet a lot would say yes. There is no way most of us look at things with the same perspective when we were in our early 20's and late teens as we do as grown men.
And I bet if you surveyed all who answered I'm going to to put early to mid 30's as the turning point of the no's. They used to say... what was it? Young, dumb and full of.....
I've never cheated, and I started dating when I was 14. I've had plenty of chances but I always found it repulsive and irresponsible. If you have such disdain for your partner, leave. That feeling is the same in this case as well. I just don't find that desirable and quite unattractive. That doesn't mean I'm a saint and that it hasn't crossed my mind. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I317 using Tapatalk
Haha 30-40% is selling them "sloots" way short. I'd wager closer to 65-70% lol Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk
You can't trust somebody who hasn't made mistakes in their life. (Not saying I wouldn't trust you...just a good time to bring this important fact up)
I think if the dude finds out what they have been doing, its not worth a couple nights in a hot girls pants. That can cause a lot of trouble that I don't think anyone wants to go through
