I think we should define crap a little bit more here. He's gone. I assume at work on the road, deployed or whatever working like a dog, not being with his kids because he's away providing for them and HER or even US. Does she live in a nice house or are we talking trailer trash? Dressed nice? I assume so since she's looking pretty hawt. So she must work out... he must be providing a gym membership for that golden lined va j-j to be stretched by anyone she can find to crawl in it. So he treats her like crap because he's tired? Home sick? Wants a supportive wife? Misses milestones with the kids but he knows it's all worth it because he's providing and she's mad because he's not home and hisses at him and he gets shorter with her? I don't know but these things are running through my head on why he's not home all the time. When you marry someone, for better, for worse and to FORSAKE all others, you are entitled to all the goodies one or both spouses bring to the table. YOU ARE A TEAM. You fall together and you succeed together. Once one has crossed the line into infidelity, you're done. Why should someone still be able to reach deep into someone's pocket after cheating? Put yourself in the cheated's position. I don't care what she wants. She needs to call her husband and tell him to send her a B.O.B. or come home more often if he's not deployed. There is no reason to stay in a marriage for the perks if you're being treated like **** and not having the meat wagon delivered in a timely fashion. He should stay the hell off that man's lawn! File for divorce if the itch was so great I couldn't let a guy I work with do his job. I didn't go into my marriage with the intent on cheating on my husband because OMG... he works far away to provide for me/family/household and wasn't there to put my head through the head board. I am. I think she's a ***** and doesn't deserve what he's providing her.
I work alot of hours. At the end of today I will have worked 64 hours in the last 4 days. I married up. She is definately the better looking one of us and shes younger. I would have a good chance at coming unglued if I found out this was my wife. Wouldnt even consider it. That being said, I am 41 now. When I was in my early 20's, My answer might be different. I pefer the place I am in now 100 times over to the place I was then.
My answer for a 44 year old is no to much drama attached with it. 22 year old woodman is a different story and went down that road a couple times, once the hubby knew so it wasn't really stepping out. My wife was married when I met her but we didn't start dating until she left him. My advise is there is plenty of single MILFs looking for "IT" no use going after her until she leaves him.
Goes around comes around. Being mr. right now and then finding out is one thing, going with prior knowledge is something different. Sure hope your buddy in 20yrs doesn't have a job with long hours or requires traveling.
I don't think a real man messes around with another man's wife. And then, messin' with "the wife of a jealous man" could wind you up lookin' like Bad Bad Leroy Brown.
Id like to say no. But your not being completely honest with yourself, if you can't admit that you would think about it a long while. And with social media being what it is today, and everything I gotta think there can't be any good that comes from it. But it is all going to depend on the situation. How long of a dry spell, alcohol, is she being discrete about it, am I sure that nobody would find out, i believe you said a co worker, so how would it affect the workplace. Again, Id like to say no, but there are a lot of variables that would come into play.
Everything has a price, one just has to decide if it is worth it. Personally would not be in this situation.
I haven't seen this many saints in one place since I stopped going to mass. All this without the offering basket getting passed around, refreshing. My answer is yes, been there done that...better part of couple years. She was beyond hot and set the bedroom bar supper high for a 20 year old guy to measure against. Sent from The People's Republic of New York.
