I answered but to be perfectly honest it wouldn't matter if I had never experienced or instead of once had it occur 25 times. My thoughts on it are still very black and white on the subject.
Your thoughts can be black and white, but things can get grey really quick when nobody else is around.
I'm guessing more than one of your wives would be more than fine with you poking another's wife[little chance of you leaving her] as long as nothing changed with your pay check being direct deposited in the bank.
There was girl in HS who was a bit nuts, but hot. She always wanted to poke, I always used better judgment and stayed away. After HS I was 19 and she was at a party with he boyfriend. She got me alone in a room and I caved like an avalanche. Even today if I see her in town I run away, talk is cheap.
I've never really been single but have had offers, even at rocky times in my relationship and still turned it down. But yes, it can happen in those situations much easier. But back to the original point of the thread. The guy knows it's wrong, thats why he asking for advice and my advice is stay away. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I317 using Tapatalk
Only if one chooses for them to be. Believe me I hear ya, and I am a man riddled with present and past sins....however I never had the gumption to go that far into the grey or black area when other people were concerned.
As a guy that's 21, I would without hesitation as long as the husband is out of town and I dont know the guy. A sloot is a sloot, there's no way around it. They decide that for themselves, unless you want to blame the parents. I'm not going to sit down with her and give a long lecture about cheating or staying faithful. No, I'm just going to sleep with her a couple of times, maybe more. What more would you want at a young age? A very hot cougar is asking you to have some fun and you're single, no way I'm turning that down. Id feel bad that the husband married a sloot, not that I'm sleeping with her. The milk man didn't deliver to doorsteps because he loved milk! That's just the way I am now as a single guy. Im sure all that will change once I get into a relationship and then marriage.
I bet almost every one of you know someone that you probably have a good deal of respect for, that everyone who knows them likes, and is a good person. And they've cheated on thier spouse, and only the 2 parties involved know it ever happened.
Why would it? I would never cheat on a girlfriend or wife. This is about a married woman wanting to mingle with a single guy. I just so happen to be single.
I never implied that this didn't happen in the past as well, but at least then society didn't accept it as a subject to be openly discussed. Everyone knew it was wrong and had shame, which they should. I can't say that I've always been a saint, but I have matured over the years and even at my worst I understood that adultery was wrong. There is no defense for being willing to ruin a family when there are millions of single women available.
If the married SO is actively pursuing others, the relationship is already ruined long before any sexual acts might occur.
The marriage has already been ruined with her wanting to cheat. I'm not chasing after married women, they'd have to come to me. Edit: Hooker beat me to it.
I can agree with that to an extent, but one should be willing to wait until both married people know the relationship is over, then nothing is done behind anyone's back and this debate would not be necessary.
