Not when I was young, single and free nor now. I wouldn't want to be a part of wrecking someone's marriage. Couldn't even imagine giving it a second thought if they had kids. We just celebrated our 25th on the 5th. I have never ever worried about my wife cheating. It was one of the reasons I married her. Tim
I didn't have time to read thru seventeen (!) pages of comments; but.... Karma is a beotch, and she usually has herpes.
I had every right to be angry with the other man, he was an enlisted soldier who knew I was an officer and in Afghanistan. Lost a lot of respect for you Hooker with your comments here.
Totally absurd. Men and women have been unfaithful to marriage as long as there has been marriage. You want to argue degrees, then you can split hairs all day. The fact that we able and willing to have a debate/ discussion shows that people are more willing to speak openly and honestly from both sides of the bedroom door. Sure years ago more people would have taken PC side of the discussion, but that doesn't mean they weren't jumping the fence to go help out their hot lonely neighbors wife when they had the chance. Sent from The People's Republic of New York.
You need to look at it like pizza, as long as theres a slice for you in the box who cares what happened to the other slices.
Yes, because it's a new problem that has just reared it's ugly head. Now back in the day, when we had morals, this sort of stuff was not talk about, because people shut up about it
Bible says that is SIN. Plain and Simple. Coveting, Lust and if it happens Adultery. Tell him to do like Joseph did and RUN!!!It isn't worth it! Too many single women running around. I am sure it is tempting, but it isn't worth it! It doesn't matter if they are trying to live by the Bible or not. It still is SIN. If she isn't happy, LEAVE!! Obviously she doesn't love her husband. She loves what he provides. I am sure she said the famous words, "For Better or Worse." Well, this may be one of the times that it is WORSE. This is the same man that she said YES to and wanted to marry. People forget that when things are going bad and use ANY EXCUSE to do what they want to do. We have name for women like that where I am from. And if he isn't careful, he may get something else he is not expecting..An *** Whupping or a Bullet with his name on it!
If I knew the husband, then it would have probably been different. I probably would have a little more discretion now if I was single, but as a 22 year old, yeah, I had no shame. Like most that age, I was quite selfish and didn't really care about how my actions affected others. Just being honest.
People knew it was wrong. People don't even recognize it as wrong today. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I317 using Tapatalk
Ain't no way, no how. It is her choice to stay if he in fact is abusive or terrible. To take part is basically desicrating on holy matrimony. If I had a co-worker bring this idea to me and ask me what I think I'd probably ask some questions: Do you feel it is right? Do you feel it is fair and right to the husband, as you only know one side of the story right? If you were married and experience issues would you appreciate it? How's your relationship with God? (only asked if dude remotely considers himself religious) I would never state whether he should or shouldn't, because he needs to come to that conclusion on his own.
So for all the "no way, no how" posters, how many of y'all have actually been put in this situation while single?
Haha, I've never been single So maybe that's why I can only see it from the husbands side. Been with my wife since before my sophomore year in high school. When you find the perfect one, you stick with it and that's what I've done.
