When I was young dumb and full of.... well you know... it was ON! I was that 'blind, cripple, or crazy; if they can't walk - we'll drag em' type of guy. However... after just under 45 faithful years of marriage (by both of us) - it's no flippin' way regarding any outside activities. Oh... and lessons learned from my pre-marital days... some husbands carry .25cal pistols! I'd Tell Your Buddy - RUN!
You are 1000% correct but this is not always that easy. Not every marriage is created equal or that simple. Don't use the cop out of getting a divorce either. That too is not that simple.
Agreed and staying together is extremely difficult at times. That's why for better or worse is in the vows. Divorce should be the last resort, not the first as it seems to be these days. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SGH-I317 using Tapatalk
All this morals talk has convinced me of only one thing. I'm cougar hunting this weekend, rings or not. Lol
Yep, It's those difficulties and mis-understanding you WORK through that takes YOU and your marriage to the next stage of love and life. One way or another we have to grow up. Just letting your guard down and talking about your feeling does wonders in a marriage. Lots of mis-understanding that build into a mountain in a marriage.
I once had a FWB. It lasted 6 years. She was in a relationship the entire time. She was also engaged and married the last 2 years. I sleep quite well at night.
