Having "relations" with a married person

At 41 I am way different than 21, I have learned like most here to stay away from the "drama" of others. At 21 I pretty much had one single thought,

Like most here, I married up also and I would not blame her for kicking me to the curb

 

If she is a willing participant in the activities and doesn't really care what her husband thinks why should we?

 

Say what you want and call me a liar if you will but im am 100% dedicated to my wife....I could never cheat....the guilt would get me long before I would get caught.....this woman gave birth to my child.....im in love with the idea of family and am looking to celebrate a 50th wedding anniversary someday....having these views even if I was single I could never be the other guy

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Is there really any harm in two consenting adults enjoying meaningless sex? Really will a quick poke change anything?
If both of them know going into it that this is about sex and nothing more, I see no down side, sex is as natural as it gets, we all desire it, some more than others. If a poke now and again makes them both happy, then poke away!

 

at my age, I would take the time that I could be spending with this married woman and trade it in for bowhunting time. The time would be much better spent. I have had plenty of hot women, and bowhunting is better. Plus my wife is hot, so...I don't fit this case at all.

 

we now have "sloot" and "poke"

Don't give a hoot, poke the sloot

 

Larry McMurtry has been using the term "poke" in his novels for a long time now....

 

Sloot sounds so low rent, kind of like a girl from Ohio .


And wasn't it Hemingway who said, "better to plant your seed in the belly of a *****, than to spill it upon the ground"?

That's from the book " For whom the bell tolls", if any one wants to check.

 

We need a hall of fame thread category and this one needs to go into it. Kinda like the vault but for keepers.

 

It will get better when some one ask, what would you do if you caught your wife ........

 

What if you were in the married guys shoes? Just curious as to what the reaction would be upon finding out that your wife has been cheating?

 

I just want to thank all of you for keeping me entertained for the past half hour.

Now I'm going to go say hello to my married, slooty coworker down the hall.

 

Lots of drunk nights and random hook ups with meaningless sloots.

Probably a few strategic lays as well. I'd be sad, but mostly mad at myself for either marrying somebody I didn't truly know, or being a lousy husband.

 

Nobody likes a braggart Brad.

 

Did you just nominate your own thread for the hall of fame threads??!!

 

Well considering my ex-wife cheated on me while I was deployed because she was "lonely"...pretty sure you can guess my answer here. Tell your friend not to be a moron with no morals or ethics and go find a single chic to hook up with. Yes, it's not his fault the married chic is definitely a trashy ho. If you aren't happy in a relationship, end it, don't sleep with other people.

 

How about a sloot that was simply someones girlfriend? Do you poke her? Does commitment to somebody else only revolve around a piece of paper saying you're married?

 

Cheating is cheating, whether married or in a relationship.

 

I would be upset at myself, because I failed as a husband.

 

I've been in those shoes so as soon as I got home from Afghanistan I gave her divorce papers with nothing in her favor and found the guy and introduced him to the bottom of my boot.