Having "relations" with a married person

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  1. BJE80

    BJE80 Legendary Woodsman

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    All righty..... Topic for the day. Guy I work with is single. He has a pretty hot chick that he knows fairly well that wants to have a sexual relationship with him. He is not dating anyone. He does not know the husband. The husband is gone a lot and apparently (according to her) treats her like crap. She says she can’t leave him because of the kids and his income and insurance (he asked). She just wants a behind the scene type of thing. Nothing more.


    What should he do?

    What would you do in his situation?

    Be honest.
     
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    Cablebob Die Hard Bowhunter

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    He should tell that cheating sloot to go slip and fall on a sharp plunger handle.
     
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    TEmbry Grizzled Veteran

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    To be honest with my answer, I'd need to see pics first....
     
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    Assume hot by your standards.
     
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    Wow. So she's a money monger with whorish tendencies.... does he really want to get tied up in that?

    I guess if I were him, I'd ask her if her old man owns a gun?!!!
     
  6. TEmbry

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    lol touche.

    If it happened like a night at the bar I wouldn't feel so bad about it, her decision.

    To preplan it and everything is a bit too sketchy for me. I'd probably decline.
     
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    Tough call. I honestly probably would but would feel bad about it in the end. I have slept with girls in relationships before, but not married with kids.
     
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    Is this the 21 year old Germ or 41?
     
  9. BJE80

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    I'll get my position out there:

    In this day in age the way anything goes, if I was single and in the prime of my life I would probably take her up on it. At least for a bit. It doesn't sound like this is a ***** or "sloot" per say by today's standards.

    Be honest people, hormones are a strong thing when a hot chick wants to get in your pants. I will admit this does get dicey though.


    Two ways to look at it.

    1. You (the dude) are not doing anything wrong because you are not the one cheating. And having sex with hot women is great.
    2. It is not morally OK to be the one crashing the marriage party. You should be above that.



    I also firmly believe that greater that 50% of people on here would do it if actually in that situation just because hot chicks possess great power on the male brain.
     
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    Consider both options.
     
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    Germ Legendary Woodsman

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    Well at 21 it's a yes, LOL Simply because between 18-21 I was a cougar hunting fool, and this is back before it was popular.

    At 41 not a chance, I have had enough meaningless relations and they just leave an empty void later in life.
     
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    I think a married woman having sex with another man would qualify as a "sloot". No thanks, I'll pass.
     
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    I'm pretty sure like 30-40% of women today are sloots then.
     
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    I agree pretty close with this.
     
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    A view like Sam Kinison, the 73 virgins thing when you die, he wanted 73 "sloots" so they know what they are doing.:)
     
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    So what would you call them? Normal?
     
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    Hormones don't dictate pre thought out planned actions. Hormones dictate heat of the moment decisions.

    I'd definitely take her home, but I wouldn't plan out the next time hubby is gone to head over there because I wouldn't want to be that guy.
     
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    It sounds like it is more of a "hey, do you want to come over tonight?"
     
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    experienced:fro:
     
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    I'd thank her for the offer but pass. If you've got a hot married women wanting your meat rocket, then there are going to be other hot, not married women willing to spread it for you.
     

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