Please ensure Javascript is enabled for purposes of website accessibility

Engagement Party?

Discussion in 'The Water Cooler' started by Dan, Jul 19, 2012.

  1. Dan

    Dan Senior Member

    Joined:
    Jul 25, 2008
    Posts:
    7,307
    Likes Received:
    5
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NW Wisconsin
    Maybe Hooker can shed some light on this for me.

    Do people really do this? My cousin sent me a text today asking when bow season opened here in WI. When I told him September 15th he said he couldn't be there because he had to go to an engagement party for a friend of his. At first, I thought it was a joke. Apparently this is something people do. I asked him if his buddy was from the the city. (Milwaukee) I already knew what the answer was going to be....yes.

    Isn't asking people to attend your bachelor party and wedding enough? Do they expect gifts for this too?

    I really don't care what he does, as I'll be hunting either way. But, three years from now when he doesn't talk to the guy anymore because he's locked in a horrible marriage with some control freak for a wife that had to have an engagement party to celebrate themselves and a marriage that's on the rocks, he'll look back and understand the rant I sent him via text today.
     
  2. John Galt

    John Galt Die Hard Bowhunter

    Joined:
    Jul 16, 2012
    Posts:
    1,417
    Likes Received:
    1
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    They collect man cards at the door.
    If I could gag it back I would try to explain what the sack less ones around here call diaper parties.
     
  3. Rick James

    Rick James Grizzled Veteran

    Joined:
    Jul 24, 2008
    Posts:
    5,258
    Likes Received:
    1,560
    Dislikes Received:
    3
    Location:
    West Central IL
    It's a real thing from what I gather. One of our members at the camp I go to up north missed a work/man weekend a couple weeks ago due to what he called a "Jack and Jill" party. I told him to wash the sand out and bring his own beer to camp but it didn't work.

    :whip:
     
  4. rybo

    rybo Grizzled Veteran

    Joined:
    Jul 24, 2008
    Posts:
    4,459
    Likes Received:
    3
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Pittsburgh, PA
    I just assumed engagement parties were put on by super rich people cause that's just what they do. I didn't realize sometimes normal people had them.
     
  5. Vito

    Vito Grizzled Veteran

    Joined:
    Dec 5, 2008
    Posts:
    6,732
    Likes Received:
    6
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    Location:
    West MI
    Yes, they happen and they are growing in popularity. To this point, I have refused to attend one.

    Here's the problem with a lot of engaged couples...they think everyone cares as much about their wedding as they do. Classic mistake.

    I should also point out that I dislike attending weddings about as much as I dislike attending funerals. It could be the similarity between the two. I can't say for sure.
     
  6. Dan

    Dan Senior Member

    Joined:
    Jul 25, 2008
    Posts:
    7,307
    Likes Received:
    5
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NW Wisconsin
    Precisely.
     
  7. tynimiller

    tynimiller Legendary Woodsman

    Joined:
    Oct 17, 2011
    Posts:
    13,054
    Likes Received:
    4,854
    Dislikes Received:
    5
    quoted a second time because it's "Oh so true!"
     
  8. smctitan

    smctitan Die Hard Bowhunter

    Joined:
    Jul 8, 2011
    Posts:
    2,038
    Likes Received:
    328
    Dislikes Received:
    1
    Location:
    Howard County, MD
    I'm not sure if this is the only awful thing growing in popularity. My sister-in-law's friend is having a pre-baby shower party to reveal the sex of the child. Once again, as mentioned before, do people expect more gifts from this or is it just another reason to be all about yourself and think other people care as much?

    Sent from my HTC One X using Tapatalk 2
     
  9. ANM21

    ANM21 Newb

    Joined:
    Jul 15, 2012
    Posts:
    37
    Likes Received:
    0
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    Just another way for people to get free stuff and to make everything about them. Isn't a wedding good enough?
     
  10. Rancid Crabtree

    Rancid Crabtree Die Hard Bowhunter

    Joined:
    Sep 24, 2010
    Posts:
    1,233
    Likes Received:
    4
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    Location:
    SE WI
    Pizza hut offers a $10,000 engagement party package that includes the following

    Limo service.

    • A ruby engagement ring.

    • A bouquet of flowers.

    • A personal fireworks display.

    • A professional photographer.

    • A professional videographer.

    •A Pizza Hut $10 Dinner Box, which contains "a medium one-topping rectangular pan pizza, five breadsticks with marinara sauce and 10 cinnamon sticks with a sweet icing cup in one box."

    It didn’t say but would assume it also comes with a box of cash or check worth $9,000 since this crappy package didn’t cost anywhere near $10,000

    http://eater.com/archives/2012/02/0...rty-package-includes-ring-fireworks-pizza.php
     
  11. John Galt

    John Galt Die Hard Bowhunter

    Joined:
    Jul 16, 2012
    Posts:
    1,417
    Likes Received:
    1
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    For most of these people choosing what new cell phone color is best is given more fore thought than how mom and dad payed the caterer , as for their devoted involvement, new hair and giggling means their all in.
     
  12. brucelanthier

    brucelanthier Grizzled Veteran

    Joined:
    Dec 11, 2008
    Posts:
    4,693
    Likes Received:
    2
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    Location:
    Southern MD
    I would imagine the $10,000 includes a set of balls to hang on your truck. Maybe they are gold?
     
  13. Rancid Crabtree

    Rancid Crabtree Die Hard Bowhunter

    Joined:
    Sep 24, 2010
    Posts:
    1,233
    Likes Received:
    4
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    Location:
    SE WI
    Exactly!
     
  14. trial153

    trial153 Grizzled Veteran

    Joined:
    Dec 28, 2011
    Posts:
    9,175
    Likes Received:
    3,256
    Dislikes Received:
    33
    Location:
    NY
    X2 I haven't attended and don't plan on attending any. Freaking weddings are bad enough, don't add to the misery.
     
    Last edited: Jul 19, 2012
  15. John Galt

    John Galt Die Hard Bowhunter

    Joined:
    Jul 16, 2012
    Posts:
    1,417
    Likes Received:
    1
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    I can see it now gold balls hanging off the fart pipe of a black KiA with a "Going Green" bumper sticker.

    God Bless America!
     
  16. Lester

    Lester Grizzled Veteran

    Joined:
    Mar 29, 2011
    Posts:
    8,599
    Likes Received:
    3,232
    Dislikes Received:
    7
    Location:
    Buffalo Minnesota
    Dan I have heard they started having these to eliminate the bachelor parties. This is as much BS as baby showers that they expect the man to come to also. My wife said we had to go to a baby shower and I asked if she was talking about her and my daughter, she said no you have to come all of the other husbands were going. What is wrong with people?

    By the way I did not go :)
     
  17. Vito

    Vito Grizzled Veteran

    Joined:
    Dec 5, 2008
    Posts:
    6,732
    Likes Received:
    6
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    Location:
    West MI
    You did the correct thing. Men aren't even suppose to attend the baby shower of their own child, let alone someone else's.

    I blame Obama.
     
  18. Dan

    Dan Senior Member

    Joined:
    Jul 25, 2008
    Posts:
    7,307
    Likes Received:
    5
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NW Wisconsin
    So its a conspiracy by women everywhere. No more bachelor parties, but its ok for them to go to movies like Magic Mike in droves and read porn like 50 Shades of Grey.

    I'm going to subscribe to Playboy. I wonder how Jill would like it.
     
  19. Vito

    Vito Grizzled Veteran

    Joined:
    Dec 5, 2008
    Posts:
    6,732
    Likes Received:
    6
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    Location:
    West MI
    She will probably like it better than your subscription to Playgirl.
     
  20. Dan

    Dan Senior Member

    Joined:
    Jul 25, 2008
    Posts:
    7,307
    Likes Received:
    5
    Dislikes Received:
    0
    Location:
    NW Wisconsin
    You've been hanging around with LittleChief too much. Weak.
     

Share This Page