Spiders don't bother me. If I find one in the house, I will usually catch them and throw them outside. We don't have any really big spiders here though. Same for snakes. Will not kill one. Youngest daughter was fascinated with snakes and frogs when she was young. While we never found any snakes hidden in her bedroom, we did find an occasional frog that she snuck in.
I hate spiders, not afraid of them at all but their webs on the house and windows. I get a spray and coat the house that repels and also kills. if I didn't the webs would be crazy.